Friday, February 29, 2008

Extreme Makeover Home Edition-Maynard: The bus moves

To begin with, it was cold. Bright and sunny, but still, cold. The windchill was around 15-18 degrees. The crowd was cold. The crew was cold. I have no doubt Ty was cold. The crowd was electric. People were there to celebrate the art of the possible. I don’t believe for a minute that we had anything close to 5,000 people there. Maybe 1,500. Two grand, tops. However, everyone was cold, and there were still a lot of people.

There were repeated shots of the limo, lots and lots and lots of chants of “move that bus” (it was a big bus).


I only saw a few portapotties for the assembled crowd (insert thankfulness for having my own facilities nearby). Cami and Harry had a good time barking at the crowd. P gave hot cocoa to a couple of the crew who were camped out at the t-shirt tent that was on the other side of our back yard fence. They were appreciative, I’m sure (the crew, not the t-shirts).

A few minutes before 3:00pm, the bus honked 5 times, which was the signal that the limo was in range. Sure enough, the Giunta’s soon appeared in a big, black limousine. At 3:20, the bus moved on command. Paul Giunta finally came home, entering his new house on Elm Court for the first time. We knew this was coming. We had all been waiting in the winter air, some for hours, just to see this event. Still, the simple truth was powerful. A father and husband was returning home to stay for the first time in two years. You couldn’t help but be moved. When Paul and Renee last lived on Elm Court together, P and I lived in Watertown.. We hadn’t even considered moving to Maynard yet. Renee and Paul were simply looking forward to the birth of their third child, and couldn’t imagine how their life would be changed, for the worse, and finally for the better, starting tomorrow.

Yes, tomorrow. ABC isn’t done taking the “beauty shots” of the house yet, and believe it or not, the Giunta family will be spending tonight in a hotel. They formally move in sometime tomorrow afternoon. In the meantime, the crew will stay on site doing cleanup and finishing details until Tuesday. Then, finally, we get our neighborhood back. Another neighbor and friend acerbically calls this “Extreme Takeover”. It might sound ungenerous, but you know something? He’s not entirely wrong, either. For a week, life has been different, and nobody was asked if it was ok with us beforehand. Routines were hijacked. Traffic patterns were drastically changed. A sleepy, bucolic little town was turned into a noisy, overly lit, round-the-clock construction zone/television set. Feel free to give me a hard time about saying that, but you can’t deny the essential truth. It was a hassle.

But it’s still worth it. This is an absolute good. A family is reunited in a beautiful new home. The kids get their dad back. A wife and mother gets to raise her family now with her husband by her side. And most importantly, a man who has been through an unimaginable hell gets to come home. So many of us take the simple stuff for granted. Paul Giunta can be home now, where he belongs. Very much like the hokey pokey, that’s what it’s all about.

Oh, I’ve been asked when the show will air. I’ve been told the airdate is May 11.

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8 Comments:

Blogger Lisa said...

Thanks for posting this and thanks for putting up with the deluge of people in your neighborhood.
It hurts to much to even think of how difficult it must of been when Renee learned that her husband was in the hospital, let alone for her to have gone through. Nice to see they have a ladder up!

Looks like spring around her house!

8:47 AM  
Anonymous me said...

I am sick you would even mention being put out or inconvienced. Get a life...gets some hope!!!!

10:36 PM  
Blogger Miss K said...

It makes me almost physically ill that you are so self-centred and selfish that you view what ABC did for the Guintas as "Extreme Takeover". I cannot imagine what Renee and Paul, and their families have had to deal with the past 2 years and you are more concerned about the disruption of your quiet little town. Shame on you! Paul and Renee are incredible examples of the human spirit and deserve all the good things life can give them.

11:23 AM  
Blogger dsg said...

Ok, some of you either don't read well or are unclear on the concept. *I* didn't call it "Extreme Takeover". Another neighbor did. What I said was that there were inconveniences, but that it was all worth it. Here. I'll repost my last paragraph of the post. Perhaps this will make more sense now:
But it’s still worth it. This is an absolute good. A family is reunited in a beautiful new home. The kids get their dad back. A wife and mother gets to raise her family now with her husband by her side. And most importantly, a man who has been through an unimaginable hell gets to come home. So many of us take the simple stuff for granted. Paul Giunta can be home now, where he belongs. Very much like the hokey pokey, that’s what it’s all about.

11:31 AM  
Blogger Lisa said...

I think some compassion for all is in order. Because one is such dire need doesn't lessen the impact on others, many who probably didn't have a choice.
Those people who lived around the set still had jobs, still needed to sleep, but with round the lack hammering and lights, many of them probably went without.
And, as the man reposted, he said it was worth it. Why not offer compassion to all involved?

12:26 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

We have just seen this episode of Ex Ma in the uk "12 sept 2008" and was really moved by this paticular episode as it makes you appreciate life even when things are going "bad" for you.I n this world we all have problems and think we are worse off than every one else but on seeing this it made me realize that it only takes one second to change your life drastically.
So i consider myself lucky.
I have been a Ex Ma fan for a long time and have watched many episodes and have shed enough tears to fill a small swimming pool,but pauls plight made me want to search the net to find their email or blog page as i want to know how he is doing and i would also like to send him and his family my love and best wishes.
I have seen many deserving familys but this family are up there.
Does any one know how to contact the family.
One more thing you Americans should take heart and be proud of your self because your comunity spirit never ceases to amaze me you are truly outstanding and i take my hat off to you all.

Good luck the Guintas

Brian
Portsmouth UK

5:28 PM  
Blogger Lisa said...

They're in the 'phone book', that is, their address is readily available.

Mailing to the US as followes:
Name
street nume street name
City, State, Zip
USA

They had another fund raiser for the Guinta family not too long ago. I wasn't able to go. Although I'm sure that they probably enjoy all the kind words, cash donations go the longest.

I've no further information on the family as I don't know them but I was able to participate in the efforts to build their home. I was also at the pep rally that they had at the school so I'm in the huge photo that they took and put on their wall.

The second night that EM was here (Maynard, I live in the same town) they had a fund raiser and I did make it to that. It was at the fundraiser I learned when Paul had the accident. They had photos of him and Renee before the accident. It was heart breaking to see how fit he was.
I believe the person who runs this blog lives one street over from them, hopefully he'll have a better update.

Maynard is a great town! Monster.com is also located here.

6:06 PM  
Blogger dsg said...

Brian, if you would like to email me at dsg 29 at yahoo dot com I'd be happy to get the mailing address for you.
Cheers-
blahblahginger

6:36 PM  

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